yeah it's totally true that he may not know. As Dawn pointed out, I am wildly speculating from my vantage point and it's not helping anyone.
It's all good. The term red flag is so miss over used anyways. We are all middle age people with past relationships and traumas.
Time to put your ex in the rear view mirror and get ready to Bumble! I can't stress to you how may intelligent, attractive women are in your area that are looking for a in shape, non-addict, non-mental health dude. Like shooting fish in a barrel. lol
I don't know if the stars are aligned or if Mercury is in retrograde or what, but this is like the 3rd time today I have seen LH post something that I agree with. LOL I agree that the term red flag can me misused and overused. And, sometimes, as we have all seen on these boards, what some deem a red flag others say is only a yellow, so you have to see them how you see them, regardless of how others interpret them. For once, I also agree with his assessment that you need to just put your ex behind you and get ready to meet some ladies.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
