Also, this isn’t even an OM. So, don’t start faulting the dude yet. He didn’t break up your M, you are divorced and this is just a boyfriend. Don’t put too much mental energy into him
Originally Posted by Maika
Yeh you're absolutely right. I spun outta control and now I am getting my balance back. I am trying to refocus all my energy into my life and the kids.
Don't worry about it. Give yourself a break on this one. Even if it's not an OM, I can imagine the rejection and lack of vindication still stings. It'll process through faster this time around and you'll get your balance back.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
