Yes, I may be colorblind, but his ability to read her would have to be preternatural to see these. Imagine how these would come up in conversation. Her: "I believe in therapy. I spent some time in therapy after my last relationship to process and learn where I could improve." I'm often shocked how many LBSs here won't even consider IC, and here she did, and you're expecting him to assess and red flag that she didn't have enough sessions after the end of a 1-2yr relationship.