Here are the main red flags: - her previous R ended in spectacular fashion 5 months before she started dating again - the previous R, where she had just accepted a marriage proposal and was 'in love' - didn't set proper boundaries between the kids and the previous dude - moved in within months of dating the previous dude - hasn't taken accountability of what she's done and made changes - went to therapy briefly as a stopgap measure for her R ending, but hasn't continued it - hasn't dealt with her abandonment issues from childhood; insecurities about her appearance (almost all of us have these, but it has always seriously impacted her confidence and self-image/value) - hasn't spent any real time alone outside of a R since late teens - has major paranoia and anxiety issues that haven't been dealt with
Yeah pretty sure he would have no idea about any of these
