I don't know your country obviously, but the important thing is you fully understand the law and your rights. Based on your response it sounds like you know your stuff, so that's good.
Still seems like even if you and H are not engaging L's to formally negotiate you'd still want to run anything by an L in the background to ensure you're covered (just don't tell H).
Originally Posted by DnJ
Are you ok with the default week/week custody? I’m inquiring about you, not kids yet.
Now, are the kids ok with week/week custody? From what you’ve said it looks like there is a resistance to this from them.
This is the part of divorce that most affects the kids and yet they get little “legal” say in how it all goes down. Of course, this is a difficult problem to resolve and the laws and courts do the best they can in the interest of the wellbeing of the children.
I agree w/DnJ's questions about custody. What's the current arrangement, and what are you thinking there?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21