I've found Hinge far and away the most normal-seeming ("oh, I could see myself dating and having a relationship with her") profiles. Match and Bumble had some promise early but quickly fell off, and Tinder is just an absolute waste land with 1/3 catfish profiles, 1/3 literally scary profiles and 1/3 maybe normal but not always close. It may depend on where you're located...just my experience to date.

CW - Are you located in a major city? Just curious you seem to have an abundance of options.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21