WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont10.)

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Wow--the comment about wanting to live full-time with mom would be a punch to the gut, for me as well.

Yeah, that's tough to hear but keep in mind her age - she might just be venting frustration and not really mean it. Unfortunately a D makes it easier for the kids to play the parents off each other; it's harder for the parents to keep a united front on parenting.

Does she know you read your texts?

I'd be careful with this. If she does not not you have access or are reading her texts she might see it as a betrayal of her trust if you explicitly bring it up the texts with her.