Difficult night and day. Emotions went all over the place, luckily it was busy so could remove my thoughts regularly.
Love your post Sage. I indeed have exactly the same values.
I'm glad that I was able to feel my out of control emotions and to accept them, and above all, simply do nothing with them, but to vent here first and listen to all of your wise advice.
And the truth is, after reading your posts, I truly feel more at ease and I know what to do. will only wait a few more days, just to be sure.
DnJ, I'm so greatful you've asked S20's opinion. You can't imagine how important this is to me. This is someone who went through it, and the fact he is giving such a wise answers means you handled it so well.
I'm thinking of translating your S20's feedback and to explain it to the children. It will mean a lot to them knowing they are not alone facing these horrible situations.
So, please thank him for his open and trustworthy vision.
In the meantime I made the draft of the divorce papers by mutual consent. (didn't have to amend a lot since this was already prepared last May)
I have giving him one month to find a loan for the house, otherwise we'll start with the selling.
The e-mail I sent was short and businesslike. Hope he'll answer in a positive way.
