LH19,

Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by BL42
The texts fell off on both sides and I ended up seeing her out on a date with another guy a few weeks later. I wasn't upset or anything - no big deal.
Why would you be?
I wouldn't. There's just a lot of attachment issues mentioned on the board, so thought I'd point out I wasn't worried about it "not working out" with very the first person I went out with post-D.

Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by BL42
I've done some dating app swiping since, and am open to more dates if it feels right, but really haven't made it a priority. Kids are #1, then work, grad school, GAL...etc.
Sounds like you got your priorities in order BL.

BTW I think you give really good advice on other peoples threads. Keep it up. You are doing great!
Thanks LH!


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21