I had a really awkward feeling driving to the date (first and only post-D), but ended up having a good time/conversation
This will happen for awhile. Then you won't blink an eye anymore.
Originally Posted by BL42
Although she told me about how she BD'd her Ex which was a red flag for me now. [/quote Interesting that it's a red flag for you but you slept with her anyways. Like Wayfarer told Bent, don't project your pain and trauma on to other people. She invited me over to her place a week or two later and we hooked up. It was fun but to be honest probably weren't a great match.
Getting the first one out of the way is a big step. The next ten will be a lot easier lol.
Originally Posted by BL42
The texts fell off on both sides and I ended up seeing her out on a date with another guy a few weeks later. I wasn't upset or anything - no big deal.
Why would you be?
Originally Posted by BL42
I've done some dating app swiping since, and am open to more dates if it feels right, but really haven't made it a priority. Kids are #1, then work, grad school, GAL...etc.
Sounds like you got your priorities in order BL.
BTW I think you give really good advice on other peoples threads. Keep it up. You are doing great!
