I feel like I can co-sign with everyone here on the topic of being direct and blunt. I've definitely benefitted from it.
Just been lurking around the Newcomers for a bit and it seems like it has really dwindled. There used to be pages and pages and now there's like only 2 pages. I wonder what's happened.
I remember finding this page via Google when googling about divorce. Maybe the search results prioritize other places or sources more now? At least there is a ton of self-help material related to relationships available.
In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced 2 young kids new relationship