Your last post gave me a clear direction again for which I'm so thankfull.
After monstering on Sunday evening H is in guilty-modus again and has been extremely friendly so I took the opportunity to have everything in writing in regards to the house and he agreed.
Now of course he need to take action. (request for a loan so he can buy in)
This afternoon he is coming over to the house to talk. His request. Will see what he has to say. I won't say much, just listen and I'll see from there. Tomorrow he is off to the other country again.