I was pointing that out because he was bragging about how wonderful his relationship is with his exw. IMO way different circumstances when you are the WAS
LH, comparing different traumas is difficult. My XW's untreated postpartum depression resulted in my son being in a full-body cast. The anger initially served me well--to get more space, get custody, and help my children. But after, and especially when she got better, it was a festering wound. Lingering anger is a tie that binds us, but it doesn't serve us. In-person, I have many single parent acquaintances. Some work to reduce it, some don't. Graduations and holidays are easier for the kids of parents who do.
Originally Posted by LH
If you follow his thread he is definitely dealing with his own karma anyway.
I live in interesting times. Amazing highs, tough lows--both karma. Onward and upward. (:
Originally Posted by overtherainbow
I just want to feel like the little brother who has to get in on the argument and disagree with everyone lol.
