I hate that I have to be suspicious of everything he told me back then. frown
Yeah - I can relate to this. Aside from his known infidelities, I now look at certain other events in our relationship differently. That time when we were med students that he came home from a month rotation in Hawaii and suddenly declared that he thought he should move out? This never crossed my mind at the time - the excuse he gave was his Catholic father’s discomfort with us “living in sin” - but now I’m pretty sure he probably slept with, or at least made out with, one of the women med students also on that trip. (He never moved out - but I should have said “don’t let the door hit you on the way out!”).
