Your STBX has now been at minimum 3 inappropriate relationships with other men while you we’re together plus cheated on her BF with you.
She’s a serial cheater and consider yourself lucky to be rid of her!
The part I placed in bold. I see the advice giving to validate, and that's great, but sometimes I see validation used to comfort the WS/WAS when in fact, BS behavior should never be validated.
Feelings, yes, but not harmful behaviors. Also have to be careful not to validate the re-writing of history. Truth is good. Live in the light. Don't join anyone in the darkness.
Drives me fuching insane. In the situation above his STBX should feel uncomfortable for fuching around with someone else’s husband. Consequences are our best teachers.
