Apparently this is a drama-filled week from the ExW side. I swear I'm not seeking it out. At times it feels like I'm living in a bizarro world where everyone is crazy except me...

OM2's sister just texted me inviting S6 and D3 to her daughter's birthday party! (It's scheduled during my week with the kids). It was a perfectly normal invitation on its face, completely ignoring the elephant in the room...as if there wasn't an affair/recent D with her brother involved.

Should I...
1) Not respond at all
2) Respond: "Thank you, but S6 and S3 won't make it."
3) Respond: "ExW was having a physical affair IN THE OFFICE with a married coworker (who has 3 young daughters) while I was at home putting then S4 and D1 to bed...to the point HR & administration had to intervene. When that ended your brother started sleeping with my wife and they immediately moved in together with our two young children...long before we were divorced. I'm sure ExW has worked through all of her issues though, and the two of them will ride off happily into the sunset together - good luck to him! S6 and D3 won't be able to make it. Please do not contact me again."

I'm assuming #1 is the recommended BD approach...but man is #3 tempting.

Last edited by BL42; 09/29/21 04:48 PM.
Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21