I really agree with this. The problem for me was being so emotionally attached that I was unable to see how desperate and pathetic I was acting.
Not only does it work better to allow people to want to be around you, it is better for your state of mind too.
And the principle works with all Rs, not just your love R. I even find that being emotionally detached in work relationships pays huge dividends. And as you said, it is better for your state of mind. Life is so much more fulfilling when you are in control of your own happiness.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
