Originally Posted by ScottB
Thanks OnlyBent. I'm starting to sort through what my purpose is and doing some soul searching. My wife was my purpose (and my family). Obviously that is not good - you should not make a person your purpose.

Yep. A lot of us can relate to this, Scott.

I always felt proud by identifying as a family guy, I didn't know that making my partner and family my purpose was a bad thing.

I now realize that balance is critical, and finding our purpose within ourselves is even more important.