I read your message, and really thought about what you wrote.
I do need to continue on my path that I can only be on alone. If mine and H’s path intersect down the road, well, we will cross that bridge when we come to it.
I wanted to tell you, this weekend was my museum trip. The new Academy Award Museum had previews for members and D and I got tickets and went. Wow! What a place. I got to see costumes, scripts, different movie making techniques and go through some really interesting exhibits. H would have LOVED it.
Instead, D and I loved it and had a very nice evening. I knew I would not be home to feed the dogs, so I asked H if he would be home since D and I had plans. He agreed, and when D and I returned home,the dogs had been fed and he was already asleep.
He did not ask about the museum and we didn’t volunteer anything. He is still aloof and I prefer to just leave him alone, in this case, I needed to make sure he could do what I needed, and I am thankful he did.
The weather here has been Fall like and quite enjoyable, I look forward to doing some things away from the home.