Rope dropping and grey rocks

[97Hope]

Not much to update. Had a great dinner with S28 DIL and G5 & G8. DIL is still allowing XH to push her buttons, but for the first time, I didn't get queazy hearing about it. My S28 brought him up and she said "we are not involving mom anymore" and I said "I love you, you don't have to protect me. If you need to talk, I'm here" so she told me a frustrating event concerning her, XH and the OW.

I am wondering how long she will be surprised by his actions. I remember being surprised.

I had an extra job this morning. It was lovely. Great people. They asked me to join a FB singles group. I did and promptly left. I think I might be a prude. lol The jokes were too much for me. Lot's of dirty talk. When I think about that and the "sexy" thing, I wonder if I was born in the wrong era?

Working days has really helped my PMA. I was getting into a rut on nights. I went to Lowes today and picked out new floors for my house. S28 is going to install them with me. I'm excited about learning some things.

Closing on the house on Wednesday, physical fitness test on Thursday and working all weekend. Then, hopefully, begin the floors and move in! I've never done a slow move like this. I usually pack it all up, move and have the house set up in a day. This will be good for me.

DIL found a washer/dryer on sale for me and they are beautiful. D....you have your exciting pill box and I'm over the moon about my new w/d set! lol aren't we something?

Went to my partner's house for a little while after dinner and had a nice visit with him and his wife. So blessed to know them. His wife's smile lights up a room and she just has such a sweet, calming presence.

Going to sleep now. Feeling good about life. Thank you to everyone who responds and shares. You all have made my journey possible. Truly. I was such a mess before I had others to walk through this with.

xo