Something to share which happened over the weekend.
FIL came by the house today. Apparantely he received a phone call yesterday from H. As you know H has almost no contact with his F since BD, although they were the best friends before his MLC. FIL was also the first to mention about the retired psychiatrist shortly after BD and back then we tried to find him together but didn’t succeed and H knows some of it since I told him this story recently. He also knows I told his F that I found the doctor and that H has made an appointment with him.
FIL always supported me heavily from the beginning, we have a very good relationship and he helped me with the kids in an incredible way, he is one of the most goodharted persons I got to know in my life until now.
Anyway, H called to say that FIL and I are one of the most honest and sincere people he knows, that the both of us have always supported him in our own way and understand what is really going on with him. That he is so glad I searched for the psychiatrist and that this gesture is something he is very greatful for. His F is really cautious if it comes to H, he doesn’t trust him and even let him go about a year after BD because it was to painful for him to see his son turn into someone he didn’t know anymore. Therefore he didn’t say much on the phone, he simply listened and validated. (so handled it in the best way he could)
Seems H had a little peek out of the tunnel again…
