WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont9.)

[LH19]

LH - I strongly suggest you slow down and re-read what I wrote.

I just did and got the same thing out of it lol.

However, I think based on how you interpreted what I wrote you were feeling some kind of way and took that out on me. None of this was addressed to you or at you. But it's not the first time a man took what I said personally when it had absolutely nothing to do with him. And I'm sure it won't be the last.

Probably not.

As far as how I feel about demonizing WAS/WS we've had this conversation before. Making monsters of all WAS/WS is an easy way out for LBS to wash away all their sins, their faults, and have zero culpability in the demise of their marriage.

Most know their part in it. Scotty B will get there. IMO the punishment rarely fits the crime.

Which leads them to being ACTUALLY bitter and jaded. It also does zero for them in helping them move up and move on. Letting that way of thinking go on lets an LBS stew in the anger instead of moving through the stages of grief which requires absolutely no higher thought nor does it allow room for forgiveness or any other method of getting over or through what happened.

This is really good stuff Wayfarer.

What I said doesn't negate in any way what you say in these matters at all.

Good point.

And in this case specifically, I think we all know she's not coming back nor would any of us understand why SB would want that.

Scotty B continues to be and is in love with a fantasy and I can't see it changing anytime soon.

My points on the matter were directed to SB, not you. It's why I literally addressed that portion to him. You're so far past the point SB is in this what I said would have literally no relevance or baring on your life unless you wanted it to. If you interpreted it as such, I don't know what to tell you LH. That wasn't my intent, and I wrote it pretty clearly that that wasn't my intent in the first place.

No relevance you just know I don't go quietly. Probably one of my ex wife's resentments lol.

If you do want me to actually insult you though I'd say keep talking about yourself in the 3rd person and I'm sure I can come up with something ;

LH19 spit his coffee. Not as funny as "build a bit'ch" though.