[s][/s]These poor innocent children. 5 and 7 and being alienated from both sides.
And you think the only way you can stop her from controlling uou is to move? Ha! You need to chose to stop letting that happen no matter where you are.
You are going to end up shooting your self in the foot you are making a really risky move and could likely lose your kids and not get custody. You are moving away from them. You are the one who is choosing your GF. You will put more stress on them by moving because they will have much longer travel distances while trying to be in school.
You aren’t thinking about these kids. Neither of you are actually and it’s horrible to read