WW: "I'm not going to let you make me feel guilty"

[97Hope]

WW was there too, all teary eyed. This month would have been our 20th wedding anniversary.

23 years here. IDK what's going on in the world with all the long-term marriages ending over OM/OW.

I don't think I could ever take her back to be honest if somewhere down the road she wanted to come back. Too much damage has been done and some of my relationships with her friends and family have been destroyed because of her actions.

I am of the same mind. And those mutual friends of ours that welcomed OW into their lives, I've certainly left behind. It helped my grief process to think out taking him back at some point - even if he changed - both families were affected, he hurt our kids, grandkids, so many people. That was another time, a different life and I don't want any of it back.

So, it's over - but my 180s are not.

Excellent!!