I got divorced this week over Zoom while I was staying with my family on the West Coast. I didn't get anything in the mail - my lawyer called me on Sunday and sent me the zoom links to the court the next day. Had to borrow a suit. Unfortunately, my camera didn't work on my laptop but they were ok with audio only.
WW was there too, all teary eyed. This month would have been our 20th wedding anniversary.
It was an uncontested divorce. I bought her share of the house out and have the kids during the school week.
I don't think I could ever take her back to be honest if somewhere down the road she wanted to come back. Too much damage has been done and some of my relationships with her friends and family have been destroyed because of her actions.
So, it's over - but my 180s are not.
drh, hang in there. Praying for you brother! Onward and upward.
Thank you SteveLW!!!
something interesting to relate. My eldest daughter had her SW16 celebration and unfortunately I had to see the former friend of the family who encouraged my WW to cheat on me.
She cheated on her husband and slept around and they recently got divorced, however they are on good terms and came to the celebration together.
WW told me that they're back together - after getting divorced. They also have a son.
When I told my relative that they said "look's like she's the only member of the 'leave your husband behind club. Must have been a slap in the face for her.'
This woman was giving my WW hints and tips about how to hide her cheating.
Also, last week was the kid's first day back at school. WW drove from PA to my house, parked in the driveway, got out and took pictures of them in their new back to school outfits. They stood outside the front door. This is something she always did each first day back at school. She never said a word to me, then got back in her car and drove off. Someone told me she posted the pics on FB which would have been weird because it would show the front door of a house she no longer lives in.
