Made it a year - part 4

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Plot twist - my attorney managed to bully him into divorcing me. Pre-trial is Sept 20th.

Ok, I'll bite...how?

I don't come here much anymore but when I was reading everything clinging to hope it used to drive me crazy when the story just ended abruptly.

I agree...keep us posted!

Let me say something positive. I'm happier now, calmer, life is more fun. Helps that I've been 100% NC for 2 years. I won't sugar coat it though it's still hard but it's getting easier.

That's great. Glad to hear it.

D15 will text him while I'm sitting right there or I'll drop her off and see that he's not home at 2am.

I'm confused...why are you dropping her off at 2am? Do you leave her there without an adult?

I'm not divorced yet and am still a work in progress but I'm okay.

Keep up the good work! Glad to hear it's getting better :-)

Sometimes I think it's so crazy my ExW and I are divorced so early with such young children and a long path to parent, but then I read stories of people married 2-3x as long with older kids and think it must be so difficult to have gone through an even longer relationship/marriage to have it end and maybe it was just as well the crazy came out earlier so I can move on sooner/younger.