Hi kas99, makes sense--if you can afford to wait, and maximizing your gains is a priority, waiting until he's more motivated could work. Motivation ebbs and flows over the years.
How are you doing otherwise?
Plot twist - my attorney managed to bully him into divorcing me. Pre-trial is Sept 20th.
Growth is slow and painful but I'm a much healthier person than I was when I first joined this forum. I get frustrated sometimes that this process isn't going faster but I get that their are no shortcuts. It seems like forever but I'm only 2 years and 5 months out.