So the court hearing didn't go well and basically I have only been awarded 800/mnth. Rent here is 1,050 + bills + food, etc. Court's were not interested in the money she had taken and spent. They see it as not being available for it cannot be used or repaid.
She certainly had it all planned.
The only good news is that I now know what town she is living in (or around) and my guess was correct. So I now know that this affair has been going on for years possibly, even while we were living in that town also. I have found out who she really is and I do not like what I see.
So I am not better off at all.
As far as sleeping is concerned, I have sleeping pills but only get 2 or 3 hour sleep a night.
What a nightmare life. I am stopping all legal actions at the moment as my priority is to find a place to live again. Had I not taken my lawyer advice in June, I wold have had move by now to a different part of the country and would have had a roof over my heat for at least a year. The cost of going through the court to make me worse of is more than a years rent on a house - lesson learned.
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
