Just curious, Taz - why exactly are you still standing? Not being facetious, genuinely interested. Since your wife showed a serious serious character flaw in the way she moved out - why do you want her back? Unless you believe she is mentally ill and not responsible for her actions? I mean - she PLANNED to move everything out while you were on a trip.
Some of us were unknowingly married to people with Dark Triad features - narcissism or sociopathy. There's only two types of people who would plan a move like that - someone who was being abused, or someone who had dark triad character defects. Even someone in full blown mania wouldn't normally be able to plan so cunningly. Hence why I ask why you are standing?
