To me personally I completely agree with you BL. Don’t get it!
To your point CW I say the real question is, has she considered what this (boobs and lips and makeup) tells her (my!) kids?

Back to Scott, if the above rule/principle sounds rational to you.
Has she begged?
If not, move forward and protect yourself.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021