I’m afraid she isn’t confused. She knows exactly what she wants and that is a divorce. The “I have no desire to date” line is widely used to soften the blow, but then it’s a huge blow to the nuts when she is dating. And she will be soon. Trust me on this. My ex fed the “I loved you the most” line while he was dating his OW. They were engaged shortly after. And still married 10 years later.
She wants a divorce. She is not confused. She is trying not to be harsh.
Saying “ I deserve someone who wants to be with me” to her was passive aggressive and kind of childish. You don’t need to announce that to her.
Please stop trying to have the “are you sure you want this “ talk. It’s only going to make things worse for yourself.
