Just chiming in to say I agree, no need to meet him in person. he's fired you as his wife and you have no obligation to have a in-person chat if you don't want to. And I think you're right on-- there really is no point as you won't be able to believe anything he says anyway. He's free to write you an email if he wants.
Hang in there! Strawberry cake sounds amazing!
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing