Hey Michka, as I see it, you’ve told him the way in which you are prepared to talk with him, stick your guns in that, nothing more to say. I would just do what you’re doing and not respond. You’ve stated your preference, that’s all that needs to be said.
Thats how I feel OB, I have been maintaining as little contact with him as possible. Its hard with lockdown because the kids want to see him daily and right now I think they need that. However, it just means he is always around and his mere presence is more than I want to deal with.
I just wasn't sure if this was one of those " i should listen and validate" not in hopes of anything, but simply because he is my co-parent. So I thought i would put it out there in DB land.
