Wolfman moving forward

[Wolfman]

Hey everyone. It’s been a while. For some reason I was having a difficult time getting on for a few weeks. Anyway I have my son this past week. Did a lot of fun things with him. It has been great. He is really starting g to come around to the baby (his half brother) he wants to be around him and love to play with him. It makes me so happy. Therapy with my d has been going ok. The therapist says she sees parental alienation. One thing my daughter said was that I picked my girlfriend over her. Something I will never understand. Honestly I don’t understand that point of view. My daughter just speaks so negatively about me, I try and just validate but sometimes I have to call out the lies. I just really miss my daughter. Hopefully this will help. My gf and I have our ups and downs, it’s tough she is just super over protective. I understand that this is her first but at times it’s too much. I am confused about something here. Since the baby has been born our relationship has gone by the waste side I’m not expecting for us to have hours together but a little time here and there. When I explain to her that we can’t forget about us, she tells me she is tired and she has to do stuff for the baby (wash sheets, wash bottles) again I understand that but when is there us time. It just hurts right now that she has no care about me right now. At night she sleeps at the edge of the bed with her back to me for the entire night. She says she needs to be able to hear the baby. I said what does facing the baby or facing me have to do with anything? She says she won’t be able to hear him? 🙄 I feel we are growing apart. Thanks for listening.