As always, I love your messages. Even if I don't agree with everything 100%, the guidance is also so thoughtful, wise, gentle and logical.
Originally Posted by DnJ
Past the limbo, through the PTSD, codependency, and such, is a different landscape. Find the new world, breathe the fresh free air, for you are so very worth the effort.
I think we are both in total agreement there. The point I was trying to make is that the work needs to happen first within yourself. The timeline isn't what matters as importantly.
And I support you back!
xo El
Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.