I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I know it is very difficult. We used to warn newcomers that an affair being involved wasn't just likely, but very probable. Unfortunately, the best majority of situations involve another person.
Better days are ahead. I know sometimes that seems to be either impossible or so far away. Take one day at a time, put those previous little boys above all else, and keep moving forward. We're here to help and support.
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I am most angry at myself for to be honest about it. I feel that had I snooped from the beginning things would have been a lot easier on me because I can then make decisions about the situation and how much I am willing to take. Especially since he kept waffling back and forth... I think thats the hardest part for my boys. It really did seem that we were going to make it.
