Another LBH (not kinda) pt. 6

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If I have a second thought I adjust my sails accordingly.

What I have observed in WS/WAS - they have a second thought and they double down on stupid.

But that's just my observations. : )


She can have second thoughts and still run headlong off a cliff. So you let her. You don't let it affect you (at the very least outwardly) - as you are working through co-dependancy, her actions will affect you less and less. You notice her running off a cliff, you let her make her choice, and you don't take it on or feel the need to warn her (she knows, she doesn't care it's a cliff), help her avoid it (she fired you), or spend energy feeling bad for her.

Stay strong! You are learning so much right now and are on your way to healing!