I agree with LH that buying a new house and moving into it don't seem like indicators of someone having second doubts. They seem more like indicators of someone trying to guilt trip you into more help. You are free to help as little or as much as you like. Personally, I have let most ex's do their own moving, but I'm not opposed to helping them packup or get their things onto a truck if it expedites getting my place clear of their things. Glad you are doing well, Salty. (:
That is probably very true as well. And I guess "second thoughts" isn't the right phrase, more that her certainty is starting to crack the more she has to do by herself. And she absolutely is trying to guilt me into helping, and TBH it was hard not to. The nice guy tendencies run deep.
