It's possible to have second thoughts about a decision yet continue the actions which take you down a particular path. That's life. In anything, not just a D, people have to make decisions and aren't always confident they're choosing correctly...but that also doesn't mean they go back the other way. Could be lying or a guilt trip for help, but also completely possible is she having second thoughts yet is and will continue to move out and towards D.
This exactly. I don't think she's is wanting to get back together or anything like that, but more that the reality of the situation is now sinking in - especially with me pulling more and more away. She thought she would have me to be there and help set up the house for her, do the heavy lifting, and all that crap. Now she's realizing that ain't gonna happen and she's screwed. She is no longer in control of the situation and she no longer has control over me, which is a very new dynamic for her.
The crap part is that there is a problem with the loan going thru apparently so instead of moving out this weekend, she's still here! We don't speak, the house is destroyed with boxes ready to go, and it is just miserable. I need this loan to close and her to GTFO or I'm gonna lose my sh*t.
