After a week of not hearing from her, she has literally just texted while I'm writing asking what time the appointment is and would I like to meet. I'm mentally prepared for her telling me she's found an apartment. I know she needs to work on herself at the moment and I so am giving her the space she needs however much it hurts.
Nothing REQUIRES an immediate response.
Can you have more will power than her? She ghosts you for a week....Let HER worry about you. How long can you hold out not responding?
You also need to be "too busy" to meet. You can deflect if you want. Another options is "I don't believe we should she each other for a while."
Last edited by Ready2Change; 08/17/2104:01 PM.
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