Here is what I tried to achieve - we have been doing the same things over and over and over again that nothing really changed, at this point I was done with her; something had to be changed. If she is out of the house, I am absolutely fine; if she is gone for a week, two weeks, a month, it does not affect me in any way. I can take care of myself and S6 completely. I don't want to be the one moving out of our home obviously, but she can do what she has been doing for the last two years, flip flopping, indefinitely. I am perfectly content with my life, house, neighborhood and city right now; she is the one who is not happy with me, our home, the city where we live, etc. Eventually, she plans to move out of the city and either be with OM or another one that can meet her needs, so I see it as a big mistake losing on our home that I have spent so many years making it comfortable.
SteveLW, to answer your question directly - I did offer for me to move out as a solution out of our limbo; I guess my NGS again put me in a sticky situation in order to keep the peace and to find a way out. It was never my intention or any hidden agenda to try to manipulate her or bluff her into coming back to me. At this point, I have not been pursuing her for the last 5-6 months, I have not been paying any attention to her, I have not been starting any R talks, I have not been buying her gifts or being intimate with her, I have not been arguing. I treat her just as another person that I know and my focus has been on me and S6.
