Tired

[SteveLW]

So you are done with her flip flopping, but are pulling your own flip flop. I agree that you shouldn't be the one that moved out, but you're the one that decided too. I say go through with it.

Now a question for you. Did you offer to move out because that's what you wanted, or did you think she'd end her A , choose you, and want to reconcile if she thought you were really leaving? Bluffing rarely works in these situations. Many LBSa has had their bluff backfire and regret it

You can cancel the lease, tell her you changed your mind, but I'm not sure that is the move that makes you look strong here. Never offering to move out was the strong move. If you do flip flop don't be surprised if she calls you out for it since you've done the same.