It has been a while since I have come to the forums but let me give you an update on what has been happening over the last few months. Ever since I posted about WW leaving the country for a bit I have had a shift in my mindset. She left without S6 and me and him were doing pretty well until she came back. For the time she was away we were absolutely fine, both me and him and we were not the ones reaching out to her, we would only communicate when she called. Long story short, after she came back she asked me if I wanted to try one more time to make our relationship work, etc, etc. Because I knew that she had been in communication with OM while she was away, I was already fed up with all her flip flopping and I told her that I am done and if she wants to go she is free to go. We decided for her to find an apartment and move out whenever she found one that she liked. So we spent April, June and July looking for apartments, but there was nothing that she liked, there was always something wrong with the apartment that we were looking at. Finally, in a monumental brain freeze, after we saw one apartment that was decent I told her that I am done with her back and forth and all the "special requirements" for an apartment and I would be the one to move out. So I prepared all the paperwork, applied for the apartment and got approved. However, once I received the keys to the new apartment I realized my mistake and that I should not be the one being inconvenienced and pushed out of my own place, while she keeps being comfortable at home and continuing her fantasy A. What would be a good move on my end going forward? I am fine with her not living with me, her being with whoever she wants, however I don't want to lose my long term apartment and all the work and renovations that I have put into it over the last 10+ years. Both of the apartment leases are under my name and her name is nowhere on the deeds. I can easily cancel the new apartment lease and will take a small financial hit, but my question is do I have to leave my apartment if I have said so? We are also discussing mediation for our child custody case and my lawyer had told me that in order for us to begin mediation we need to have two separate addresses. We currently do not fight, as I have let go of her, and are pretty much coasting through the days and weeks as if everything is normal. Thank you all for your time and insight.
