SteveLW all that has been taken care of when he was charged. Its slightly different in aus but essentially all that legal protective stuff was already in place.
What am I trying to save? Thats the part I don't want to think about.
This week has been so trying, the kids are really feeling his absence as literally just last week he was spending most of his time here, sleeping over and things were really looking up.
My eldest (S8) is struggling and really misses his dad. The middle one (s6) is I think a bit too young to fathom any difference and the baby just wants me so it dosen't matter right now.
I know what you mean SteveLW, if someone else was in my position I would be saying the exact same thing.