Been here before. MLC? WAS? Not sure

[97Hope]

This might not be a popular opinion, but I view the OW/AP as gum on my shoe.

I don't engage with it. I scrape it off, clean it, and walk on.

I don't have conversations, or look for the truth from gum on my shoe.

I don't spend my time wondering how long the gum was on my shoe, or why it picked my shoe.

It's gum on my shoe. It adds nothing of value to my life. It is a nuisance unless I make it a central focus.

So...my opinion is...do NOT call them. They have nothing of value to add to your life and they lie and cheat. Last person you would want to count on for truth, or really anything.


They are not on your level. Leave them there, and stay on yours.

I'm so sorry you have had this revelation, but now you know.

At some point you have to decide, when is it enough? He has had an AP, will details change anything about that? As soon as you know 'enough', you have to fight the urge to dig deeper. If your L needs more info, they have people that can take care of that.

Now is the time for healing. A wound won't begin to heal until you let it.

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