LH I have to disagree with you here. It wasn't accountability it was intention. There was so little time in this situation that demanding MR or anything else wouldn't have made a difference.
It's ok to disagree with me as long as you don't call me an a-hole lol. Probably wouldn't have made a difference in the outcome but there is a difference in going out with strength or going out weak. I wish I would have gone out strong.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
And likely would've been seen as pressure and just closed the door sooner. She was never all in. I was clear that I was concerned about that. I think everyone was. She did what most WS/WAS do.
I agree but put her to the test. You want to work on the marriage then show me.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
She said things she didn't mean to buy time to decide. As you said a stay of execution.
Right. You never want to give them time to decide. Are you in or are you out?
Originally Posted by wayfarer
But I think that stay of execution helped mako figure out what he wants and needs, and stbxw isn't it.
He would have eventually figured that out anyway.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
I'm sorry mako. It's unfortunate to have some hope and to have it all come crashing down. But like LH said you do have really little kids you have a long road ahead of you with stbxw. There's a lot of room for a lot of things to happen. Or maybe like my first MR maybe this is the best thing for everyone. Only time will tell.
Wait until she has some dating encounters with weirdos. I believe Mako's main issues were affection. She's about to see some real issues lol. Right G-money?
This is just another sad story where three kids are going to suffer because their mom looks at Facebook too much or watches too many rom-com movies. Very sad!
