WSs looooovvvvvveeee a reason to act like they can't trust you. It makes them feel like the moral playing field has leveled out.
Yep! ExW: sounds like we have a trust issue (referring to me, as if she's not the one having the affair). Me (thinking): Umm...yeah...for obvious reasons?
My H, when confronted with a 20 page phone bill when it was usually 4-8 pages. The exact same convo....I swear.
Mishka when I have a little more time I'll read through what's been going on recently and drop my 2 cents. I just saw what BL42 wrote and couldn't help myself it made me laugh so hard.
It made me laugh too.
I would greatly appreciate your two cents.
Such a hypocritical tactic by a WAS/WS! I know my W tried the same tact. "You were checking up on me??"
I finally asked her: "What is worse, snooping on someone? Or being guilty of behavior that is inappropriate and found during snooping?" She never accused me of breaching protocol again!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
