I really think you are doing a good job. You can respond to those texts with something like �I hope you are having a good day�. If he pushes you just tell him �I really need some time to think things through�. You want to see consistent actions from him for a really long time. 6 months minimum for you to see he is really committing back to the marriage. It�s very important that you don�t give in too easy. Keep GAL.