[/quote] Obviously she has upgraded to a more wealthier individual, but surely it's about connection and love, I thought we had that I really did. Perhaps I'm the one that's delusional? [/quote]
I think a lot of the time we project our own feelings onto our partner and assume they feel the same way, I know I did.
I was content with my relationship and would have never left my ex, the relationship worked for me. So I assumed she felt the same way.
Hindsight is 20/20 and looking back, I don't think I was as happy as I thought I was. And my ex certainly wasn't happy either.