Well she contacted me last night...by phone, in her car heading home from work. Said she wanted to end us. I said ok, I respect. I said I wish you all the best in the future, I love you...and she replied "I love you too". WHAT? I had to say if you love me then why are we ending. I don't recall the particulars from there, but suffice it to say she wasn't feeling it and as it went the thought occurred to me that if she truly loved me, she would not be letting me go. Once that thought crossed my mind, I let go and we ended the call.
Sorry to hear B. The proverbial actions of words. You handled it well. All you can do is move forward. I think dating is difficult now because most people not understand they don't need anyone so it is easier to move on when you hit a rough patch.